Every day I wake up, I think to myself,
"Let's be nice today, okay?"
Now what is it about being nice ?
Like everyone knows,
In order to look nice on the outside, you need to be nice on the inside.
And how does this happen ?
Well, sincerity might help.
For an example,
If you want to look nice for your interview, you can't think,
"I need to look nice and sweet. Baju kurung ? Or casual office wear ?
Is my make up light enough ? Ehem, ehem, my voice need to be sweet..."
WRONG !
Because when you try too hard, it'll show on your face and it'll all be messed up.
But if you [AT LEAST] try a bit, I bet no harm will come.
Try this instead :
"If I don't get this job, then it's okay, then. There's always next time at other places."
But I'm not saying you just have to wear sweatpants and wear let your face looks like it's oily.
Just DON'T overdo it.
In other cases, you might say this doesn't work.
Well OF COURSE it doesn't.
You only need the root points.
BE SINCERE !!! OPEN YOUR HEART !!!
Another example :
If somebody tries to make fun of you, like say,
"Hey where'd you buy your shawl ? The lost and found ? Hahaha.."
Of course you'll feel all inferior and want to hit them instead. But try something like,
"Really ? I know, right ? I need a new shawl. Thanks for your advice !!!"
Now how would you feel ? I bet all fluttery inside because you did it.
You didn't say anything that might hurt someone's feelings yet you'll feel satisfied !!!
Am I right, or right ? Haha :D
One more example :
If your friends try to prank you or make funny surprises for you, my tip is to just
ENJOY !!!
I bet you've heard of this saying.
"If you can't fight it, just enjoy it" ?
Then you've got nothing to lose there, right ?
I don't know what other examples I can give but from my experience,
I've been teased on a lot of times and I never take it seriously.
Because the first thing that'll come to mind is,
"People will talk. If you accept it and smile, they'll talk.
But if you resist it, they'll talk even more".
well that's my perception.
So when people make fun of me or just play jokes and pranks on me,
I'd say things like :
"That's the best you can do? Hahaha well congratulations then !!!"
"What ? I'm human ! It's not THAT bad to be weird. And you're not human ? Hehehe"
"I know right ? Thanks !!!"
well... just those common sentences :)
and at the end of each sentence, NEVER forget to smile, okay ?
Because nothing makes the enemy speechless like a smile, right after they hit you.
Am I right, or am I right ?
RIGHT !!!
TEEHEE :D
See you soon ~
~A~
You know when people say,
"you can never outsmart me. I'm just too perfect."
"you're too innocent. You'll never understand."
"yeah. I'm just to good for you."
How do you feel?
Hateful, wanting to REALLY outsmart 'em, vengeful and such.
But being so will never help.
Now, let me ask you.
Which part of life form that are used to this sentences ?
Yes, guys. Men. Opposite of female ?
I think you've heard of them.
* I don't mean to insult you guys, but this is the horrible truth *
Guys always say this because of the egoism that's always
building in them.
I know this because I live with 4 guys and...
none are NOT like the above.
okay, so maybe not ALL guys are like this.
but for most of those who are, girls need to be careful of them.
why ?
because, these guys can fool you, toy with you and make you
look like you know nothing but make-up and gossip.
so in this post, I'm gonna help those who are always
outsmarted by others.
Yesss, and it's especially for girls...
>>> who needs to outsmart guys.
* can also be used for girls to play hard to get *
Unlike most of the tips out there, my tips are weird.
Probably because I.am.weird.
Who knows ? heehee :D
For this case, all the girls need to know that the key to win the
conversation and outsmart these kind of guys, is to
PRETEND AND PLAY.
And just how do you do that ?
Like this ~
when they say things like :
"you can never outsmart me. I'm just too perfect"
#do it my way :
- you smirk, and say, "uh huh...?"
- look at him from top to bottom and look away
- act like you're thinking and say, "pfftt, yeah right."
I can guarantee that he will grab you and say something like :
"whaaattt ? what did I do ?"
Just pretend like you can outsmart him (even if you can't),
and just play along with his egoism.
Show him that you're no match for him.
Another example where the guys say :
"I know you like me. Your face shows it all !"
#in this case there are 3 things you need to take note.
- maybe you're in a position where you really do like him.
- maybe you don't like him but with that question, you're starting to realize that you actually do.
- maybe you hate him but just don't know what to say.
#my way ? watch and learn >:)
for #1> don't stutter, look into his eyes and take a step forward and say
"If I do, what will you do ?" then draw your brows up.
for #2> look at him, smirk and say "hmph, what a dream you are in"
then look away angrily while laughing sarcastically.
for #3> glare at him, take a step or two towards him and say
"do you really want that to happen ?" and walk away.
I've tried all 3. Even more, if I'm not mistaken.
And all 3 have proven that they are unquestionable.
Try them out.
And if it works, I'll keep on posting more.
Peace out :D
HOLA ! (^.^)
This may not be the best blog for tips, but I can assure you that I'll try my best.
A few days back, a friend of mine kept telling me how I can post dozens and dozens of my tips as it helped her a lot in her past.
Tips about what ? Well, things, I guess. A lot of things, in fact.It's not that I have a lot of experience or anything but it's just because I watch a lot of drama during my free, lonely time.
And just to make it worse, I'm also used to analysing people's behaviour, especially the people around me.
So for the first post, I'm going to share some tips on
FIRST IMPRESSION.
People say the first impression is everything.
Say like...
in an interview, if you screw up the first time, there's no more "next time".
in a new school, if you don't do it right, people will talk bad about you.
in a new workplace, if you don't act right, people will push you around.
These rules only apply when you're in a drama.
In real life though, those rules won't help.
There are a few things that people say will help on first impression.
For instance.
- put on a nice, sweet face
- use soft, sweet voices
- never forget to smile sweetly
- eye contact is a must !
- sit straight and be polite
- innocent body language !
and all that.
SO SORRY TO SAY, THIS IS 2013.
THE NEW ERA OF HUMAN RACE HAS BEEN BORN.
Whoever uses those tips nowadays, will crash and burn.
People nowadays, I learn, need more spices in those tips.
Because everybody is trying to win the top spot in life
so they have to have a lot of Ice and Spice, no more everything nice !
As I am just an undergraduate, the best I can do is to find a job
while I have nothing to do at home.
So I've been interviewed by a lot of people while I was on it.
And believe me, it was NOT easy.
"Why do you think we should hire you other than some other person?"
"Why do you need this job when all we offer you is just 500 per month?"
"Do you think you can have this job with just a nice smile on your face?"
"Do you hope to find some puppy love while you're on the job?"
"What will you do if some customer try to blame the company for some mistake that you did?"
And...such.
Harsh, huh ? I know. And they say I'm harsh.
but THAT was NOT all.
That was at least some easy questions.
Take a load of this.
"What are you taking for your first year in university?"
"You want to be a writer? Oh no, dear, life is too hard to be just that. How about a computer engineer?"
"Studying in Malaysia when you get straight A's? That won't do!"
"I know some people who can help you. With results like yours, no one will want you in their universities!"
Yeah... and I wasn't faking, either.
These things really happen. I know. I've heard a lot of the same questions.
And for a person like me, I answer sarcastically.
But FYI, some people just can't take jokes.
So now, let me lighten up the normal tips that you used to refer to
so you can live up to other's expectation as well as satisfying yourself.
I'm still using the old tips as a guideline, but I'll be kicking it up a notch.
- Put on a nice face but make it bold and fierce.
- A straight voice, confident !!!
- No sweet smiles, just "I know the answer" smile.
- eye contact and sharp glances.
- sit straight and polite (I don't think I can change this)
- friendly body languages
There are some differences, you know, from the usual tips and mine.
Mine are a bit feisty, but who cares ?
If you want to make it out alive in this world,
how's about you try mine ?
PEACE OUT :D
